guess i was pretty effin drunk last night i dont usually get that way unless im REALLY REALLY DRUNK. had to delete what i typed cause of a few lurkers i know, it would pretty much raise hell.
thanks everybody for the positive replys, it means alot.

It's never too late Sycho. Keep your head up. You've never done me wrong so I'm here for you too.

Sycho!

Hey, you know that the Royals are here for you! Funny thing is that sometimes you meet the perfect person when you least expect it! That's what happened to KG and I. So, don't be too down about turning 30, BECAUSE MY 30TH IS THE SAME DAY AS YOURS! All the best peeps must have been born in September! So, keep on keepin on!!! *hug from Da Queen*

Cortni

turn that frown upside down guy

Hey Sycho, we have never met, but I got your back, I just turned 32, have no kids and kinda dont have a job, I quit my good paying job a year ago last July because it was ruining the one really good thing that I have, my marriage, so now I try to find odd handyman type jobs and work part time for a buddy that quit the same place I did, but he started his own remodeling company. Hang in there bro, things will turn around, not to pry too deep, but ever thought of counsuling? I did a bit when things were going bad with my parents marrage and also really thought about what was said in the sessions when I was having trouble with my own marriage, its nothing to be ashamed of, it take a man to go get help and not wait for it to show up, keep your chin up, things will get better.

Sycho, you are always welcome here in Slap's Hood, and you don't offend Slap or scare him at all. The SlapArmy is proud to have you aboard, and there is no better people in da whole world to be a part of. You gots a wonderful family right here, and we is here for ya; to pick you up, make you smile, and make bunches and bunches of friends. Slap likes you da way you is, and it's always good to pop into the Neighborhood and see that you are here. Slap thanks you for finding this place and becoming part of the family...

It be Friday Sycho, another day closer to Mother G, another day closer to what we love; rippin bowls, kickin with friends, and enjoyin what we are, and that is good folks.

HEY Sycho, I DONT KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND I DONT RELLT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT YOU, BUT I KNOW A FEW PPL WITH THE SAME STORY AS YOURS.... ALL THEY DID WAS FIND SOMETHING THEY LOVED, AND AFTER A WHILE, THINGS ALL CAME TOGETHER. NOW SOME MIGHT NOT BE MARRIED WITH KIDS, BUT THEY ARE HAPPY WITH WHO THEY ARE AND THOSE AROUND THEM.... I KNOW THAT IF IT WERENT FOR GLAMIS, I WOULD BE NOTHING LIKE I AM TODAY, AND IT MAY BE THE SAME FOR YOU, IT MAY NOT, BUT ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS SOMETHING YOU LOVE, AND IF ITS NOT A WOMEN, THATS OK!!!! IM SURE IT WILL COME....



I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH THAT MEANS TO YOU COMING FROM A KID, BUT I WISH YOU GOOD LUCK, AND I RIDE A CR250 AS WELL AS THE 400EX, JUST SO YOU KNOW.... LOL

WAIT, I JUST READ THAT YOU RIDE A CRF. OOPS LOL

Don't sweat the turning 30 thing man

As for the woman thing... don't sweat that either, it'll happen when it happens... if ya try and rush it, it'll probably end up like the rest

And eff keeping up with the Jones's As long as you can do the things you enjoy that's what matters.

Finish that EE when ya get a chance man

Hang in there bro... there is a balance in life. Sounds like you got most of the hard stuff outa the way, should be smoth sailing soon

Eric,

Life can be a bitch sometimes, but from the few times we've met, your a cool guy in my book. Try not to dwell on the past, I know it's tuff when youv'e been s hit on so many times. Your doing the right thing by going to school and trying to make a better life for yourself. The sacrifices made now will eventually pay off in the long run. You've got a strong backbone, don't give up, It'll all work out for you one day.

HEY SYCHO,DON'T LET IT GET YOU DOWN!!!!!

IN THIS WORLD YOU CAN COUNT ON A FEW THINGS HAPPENING. YOU'LL
ALWAYS GET MORE OF A FEW STANDARD THINGS!!!

#1 NO MATTER HOW BAD THE FLAT SPELL,YOU'LL GET MORE WAVES!

#2 CHICKS ARE LIKE WAVES, THIER ALWAYS ONE ON THE HORRIZON!

#3 EVEN IF YOUR A BUM, SOMEONE WILL GIVE YOU A DOLLER!

#4 IF YOU WALK WITH YOUR HEAD DOWN YOU ONLY SEE TRASH,BUT IF
YOU LIFT YOUR CHIN YOU SEE THE WORLD!!!!

I'VE BEEN THERE MAN! I KNOW YOUR PAIN.I EFFEN KNOW, JUST REMEMBER
THAT IF YOU DON'T ASK THE ANSWER IS ALWAYS NO! BUT ONE OUT OF TEN
WILL SAY YES!!!


P.S. I ASKED, SHE SAID YES, 6' MODELS DO LIKE BIG GUYS WITH TATTOOS!!


KEEP THE FAITH .............................................................................BIG MIKE

Just remember that you arent alone in life you do have family not only around you but on the computer, we are always on here

Bro - you need to make a road trip.. You can watch my kids for a week.. that will cure the kid deal - Then you can hang with my wife for a week - that will cure that feeling - Then Ill take you to vegas for a week and we can have a "good time"..

Met you a few times now - Tops in my book for sure.. Nothing easy in life - sometimes you get handed bogus hands and you just have to fold em and work towards a better hand.
It will happen for ya brother -

Dude, it takes time to get the things you want in life. I didn't move into my first condo until I was 34 and didn't have my kid till I was 40.

Just keep hanging with the peeps here and they will steer you on the right path. I can count 4 couples that found each other because of the board. Maybe your girl just hasn't posted yet. What ever you do don't rush things, life has a way of working things out...

I for one think that you are an awesome guy and I think most people around here that have met you agree with me. Don't worry about what other assholes think, the people that know you love you. Sounds like you had a pretty shiatty childhood, but you have a new family now. We are your family. And we love you for you.

Good advice guys! See how many people have your back Sycho?!

Hang tough guy. I've had my share of hard knocks in life. They suck, but you've got to get past them. A life well lived is the best revenge, that's my motto.

Whoa..... I don't have the time to read all of this ^^^^ but I'm sure it's all to support you. Hey Sycho.... I thought you were my #1 HILF.... but if you ever wanna talk (sounds like your mom and my mom went to the same partenting classes) my # is in the directory in connections.... or you can always PM or IM me.... I'm a good listener and conversationalist..... just ask bean!

You've gotten some great advice so far.


Well, except for the basketweaving, but whatever.

Just remember, every day that you can wake up and look in the mirror and honestly say to yourself, "Well, at least I'm not Rubberdork (or Richard Simmons)." is a good day. Hell, let's not kid ourselves - it's a great day!

As for the 30 yrs old and not being married part... the grass usually appears greeener on the other side, but that usually requires a lot of fertilizer.

All of these guys who say they're married to their best friends - are either gay or afraid to tell you the truth because she'll kick their azz.

Remember - Rodney Dangerfield isn't successful because he looks like Anna Kournikova. It's because millions of men around the world can relate to him.


Disclaimer:
For those who are about to get riled up over the last 3 paragraphs - relax. Laughter is more therapeutic than $150/hr therapy sessions.

<--------- Did not discover Glamis until I was older then 30!

Dont feel bad about where you are in life, it is kinda like racing, sometimes the other guy shifts sooner than you, but you may have taller gears which will allow you to win in the long run!! Either way, as long as you cross the finish line, it is ALL GOOD

No matter how bad it is now, it can ALWAYS get worse!

I am 31 and going through a divorce out of a marraige of 13 years and right out of highschool.

Mike

WHAT ABOUT UNDERWATER BASKET WEAVING....?THAT MIGHT TOP ALL.... HEHEHEHE

<---- 40 before had a job more than 1 year. Desert bum all my life. Finally figured it out.